My name is Laura Weller, I am 27 and SINGLE.
This blog is a diary of my past and future efforts to search for a husband before I'm 30. 2 years and 7 months to go!
My friend, who is only 29 was called a spinster not so long ago. Out of interest I've just looked up the word spinster. Here is the definition taken from dictionary.com:
spin·ster(spnstr)
n.
1. A woman who has remained single beyond the conventional age for marrying.
2. A single woman.
Now what I want to know is what the conventional age for marrying is! I read once that in the Victorian times a woman was considered to be a spinster if she turned 25 and was without a husband, or at least had a suitor in tow. Thank god I don't live 120 years ago as I would be 2 years into my spinsterhood and would be considered too ugly or not fit enough to attract any man! Doomed to be a spinster for the rest of my life.
I also read once about there being a shortage of potential husbands after WW1.Many women struggled to find a man after so many had been killed at war. I wonder whether even to this day there is still a shortage of men?
it's funny, i just discovered that i was a spinster today!
i will be 30 in 8 months, i am dating someone since about 1 year now and i hope he is the One, but i know it's impossible to get married before 8 months!!
i only hope i ll be engaged before 30.. I lived my life and never really thought about the fact that there is such a thing as a conventional age for mariage until a few months ago, and it sadens me, but no regrets. It is better to start later and have no end, then to start early and end up in a painfull divorce...
many scenario's are possible so don't worry. There is a good reason why you haven t met him yet, maybe he still needs to perfection his skills;-)
i met him when i was aged 28 and a few months and he is the best match ever, i could have settled for less, be married already perhaps with kids, i m so happy i am a spinster, if i wasn t i wouldn t have met him !!!
Good luck, have trust and ..... be yourself but apply the RULES !!!